Marriage is said to be eternal bliss. When two persons meet each other they are unknown. They are not aware about their likes and dislikes. To lead a happy married life it is essential to know each other. To think that whether both are compatible, whether two uncommon person can lead happy life, whether they can live together with each other in odd circumstances also. As life is not always bed of roses, thorns are attached to it. Living together and removing these thorns together is the utmost important.
As to lead life in hardships is more difficult, this is where the need of perfect partner is required. The partner, who can stand along with you in facing realities of life, here the importance of courtship period come to existence. It is the time when two people who wants to get marry can justify each other, so that they could lead their life together. It gives time and importance to know each other, to decide whether they can live or not. It is of no use getting married and then to repent on that. It is hurting or spoiling someone's life and emotions. No one has the right to play with some one’s life. Man can overcome death once, or loosing someone dear to him, but it can shatter the life with broken relation. Broken relation is worst then piercing one’s body with knife. No one can overcome with that broken relation.
To avoid any such weird circumstances courtship period is important. It is better to say no at initial stage of relation rather than to carry it half hearted. Actually that is the time when one can know each other more closely. They can observe each other activities more minutely. Marriage is a lifetime commitment truly made with open heart. Once the commitment is given then to break it’s like doomsday. It is the arrival of new life which is full of hope and prosperity. It is this courtship period one can have mutual understanding. They can learn and should try to trust each other. They should try to consider each other life and its importance as their own.
They should accept each other what they are and not what they want to be. Marriage is a relation of present learning from the past in building a better future. This is what courtship period teaches us, it is beneficial for leading harmonious and happy life. If these qualities are not found between two persons then it is better not to marry rather than fulfilling for other material gains. Courtship period teaches us to find partner who can be friend first and then life partner, who will not leave us at any odd circumstances of life. But will hold each other’s hand to fight the war’s of life.
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